How to tell if your being visited

I recieve alot of visits from spirits, one actually resides here in the house and I think she has taken on a room mate or perhaps he was here the whole time. We can be sitting in our living room and a scent of perform like lavender or roses pass through the room and the desipates. Some times its a smell of rubbing alcohol. Strong shivers as if someone just walked through you, they did. A ringing phone that does not work or is not plugged into the wall. They will come in your computer, tv or radio because they are made up of an electric energy. Some people say there isn't a God. Perhaps his name is not God, but there is a higher power, something had to make us. Even if we came from the ape, a tad pole or whatever something had to create it. Whole created the planets? A true medium is good and believes whole heartedly in God, a higher power of a divine source that created the beginning. We die and our soul leaves our bodies. Most see a white light. Is that the white we follow to heaven or is it really the brain just closing down? Like in the old days when a tv turned off there was just a white tiny light that would finally fade away. No I believe its heaven so follow it to the otherside. I get images of a place with green grass, trees, my dad and my animals sitting under a tree with the rest of my family. Their waiting to greet me when its my time.

She's crazy your thinking. Am I? Can you explain any of this?

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What are some signs they are with you
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Faint odors like perfum just floating by, orbs are little sparkling lights that you may see in a room or even outside. Sometime you may hear your name being called, something moved, or a shadow passing by on your wall. You more then likely did see a loved one, a person you knew, a pet, a stranger who perhaps past away at that spot in some point in time. They may look transparent, like a old motion picture playing. Another sign is an animal acting strangely, not walking in a certain area. They will walk around an area. A dog may bark at something that you can not see. A little child can see the spirits. Most are their invisible friend, or make believe friend. Funny how when children grow older the playmate fades away. Because as we grow older our open minds to things begin to close because we believe as most do as they grow older things like that do not exist. To the other side we are the spirits. They are where they are meant to be. We are the ones walking around in their world.